Who I find attractive and what attracts me are two different things. I find chiseled men very attractive, but that doesn't attract me. Here are a few qualities that attract me:
- Integrity - hugely important
- Character
- A great sense of humor and someone who gets sarcasm (my humor of choice)
- Friendly
- I prefer dark headed people (even though my husband is very blond)
- I prefer a guy taller than me (though not a requirement, my ex-boyfriend was my height)
- A man holding a baby and talking gibberish to it - so hot!!
- A man playing with a dog - like really interacting with it!
- A good heart - someone who is not afraid to cry
- A man who isn't afraid to eat - I like men who are a little bit squishy in the middle (I like to cook and bake and I need a man who will eat it) My husband is a bit of a picky eater, but he loves baked stuff.
There are a few. I am not hugely important on looks. My husband was born with a double cleft lip and palate. During our first date, he rarely looked me in the eye, because he thought I would find him unattractive. What he doesn't know is I started falling for him because of the way he interacted with his nephew who was 2 at the time. Also the way he interacted with his brother and the way he treated me. I could care less how he was born. He is a great man who has integrity, character, and definitely a good heart. Now if he were only dark haired....hmmm...maybe hair dye??? haha
Photo Day 26:
I have posted this before, but it's definitely empty
The hallway after strike. For two weeks it was complete chaos back there.
This is part of Paula's June Blog Challenge.
I love how you wrote this. I agree that who you find attractive is not the same as who attracts you!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely. They are two very distinctive things. :)
DeleteGreat list!
ReplyDeleteThanks. :)
DeleteIntegrity and humour.
ReplyDeleteYes.
Both very important.
Deletehah sarcasm is my choice of humor too
ReplyDeleteSome people just don't get sarcasm and that scares me. haha
DeleteNice post, insightful.
ReplyDeleteWhat Attracts You
I like to see a man doing silly things with his daughter like playing with her tea set, wearing a tiara or this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTIzjVxvV2U.
ReplyDeleteThat is totally cute!!! I agree. A man who doesn't care that his daughter has him wrapped around her pinky is super sexy!
DeleteGirl, I OOOZE sarcasm from my very soul. It's a scary thing!
ReplyDeleteI think a man... IN MY KITCHEN CLEANING UP THE DAMN MESS is the SEXIEST MAN ON THE PLANET!
Yeah, he doesn't live here apparently.
:o/
He doesn't live in my house either!! Nor does the one who does laundry. I do have the one that leaves his socks everywhere!!
DeleteI have an 8 year old that does that.... Mine is VERY good and would be a gold medalist in the "fondle the remote control" olympics.
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